Thursday, August 27, 2015

The man dances

“Grandpa, dance with me.”

Never heard my wife say that before.  She was mimicking one of your daughters, who had said it more like this – “Grandpa!  Dance with me!”  To which I replied “After I do some more of this work.”  You can imagine that your mom followed up her comment with “You won’t hear that for much longer”.  So I danced.

“Jesus called them to him and said, ‘You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. It shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be your slave, even as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.’" (Matthew 20:25-28 ESV)

To serve”.

Talk about counterintuitive.  But God Himself is a serving God – the Father serves the Son and the Spirit just as the Son and the Spirit serve the other two Persons of the Trinity.  Always have, always will.  For us to be great we must serve.  It is who God is, and all things that will be successful must orient to their Creator.  Never, ever, under any circumstances, put yourself first.  You do claim you want to be like Christ, yes?

To give his life”.

Yes, of course, he died for us.  But he also lived for us.  You have not missed that at least thirty years of normal life passed before he began his ministry.  Probably started work at age 12.  The Creator of the universe worked for 18 years in a tiny little shop doing manual labor.  Give your life to your wife – “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her”, (Ephesians 5:25 ESV).  Then we can think about our work, our kids, the other ministries God puts in our lives.


Serve with your life – which may include a little impromptu dancing.

Men and Sons

This will be a blog from a man to his sons.  The focus - how to be a man as God created us.  Well, as well as we can in a fallen world!  I'll primarily be writing to Paul, Aaron, and Jason (to give them in the order they came into my life).  There are other young men of whom it might be said they are my sons in the faith.  Sometimes I may be thinking of them.  In any event I hope this helps first my sons, and then any who might happen across these pages.

Rick Henderson